What if you could become a living magnet?
you
will have an extraordinary power or ability to attract. Being a magnetic person
involves positioning yourself to attract other people to you. It means becoming
recognized as the go-to person, the one with a broad network, the person who is
known for solving other people's problems. The person with whom everyone want
to talk. That's the person you want to become because that's who you need to be
to stand out from your competition. Magnetism make the person so attractive
that it is hard to ignore the pull you feel naturally toward that person. It's
an irresistible force. Magnetism is not
something you can achieve it is something to cultivate. there are few simple
steps, with the help of these you can cultivate magnetism within you and
attract people just like a magnet.
Be a power bank of energy
Energetic person can electrify the surrounding with their presence. People are tend to become more energetic when they are around a high-energy individual. I remember, There was a boy in high school, he was so energetic that we often wonder where this energy and vitality comes from? He always fire up the stage with his energy and enthusiasm and that makes him stand different from other. If you want to become the talk of the town then ward off your slothfulness and become a power bank of energy. Nobody would like to talk with a lazy and sluggish person, right. without enthusiasm nothing great could be accomplished.An energetic man will succeed where an indolent one would vegetate and inevitably perish. - jules verne
Self confidence
Confident people are consider to be more magnetic. self confidence is a magnetic quality and it is must to attract others towards you. Confidence is a trait that either you have or don’t. if you lack confidence then you can create it gradually. If you are confident about yourself then nothing can dampen your enthusiasm to win in life. Your self confidence will make you a magnet for many out there. See, We receive what we give, right, this the way things work. If you aren't going to have confidence in yourself then why would anyone else? So have faith in yourself. when you believe in yourself people start to believe in you as well. when you walk with your shoulders back and your head held high, you look confident and you indicate others to believe in yourself.self confidence is the first requisite to great undertakings. - samuel johnson
Be a active listener
If you want to increase the level of your
magnetism then become a active listener. In my opinion this is the trait you
must have to become attractive. People are generally attracted to those who
listen to their concerns, ideas and ambitions. There are so many people around
us want to talk about so many things, If you listen to them attentively, you have no idea how much
pleasure you are giving to them. You will instantly become likeable. If there
is someone in the party who is great listener you will find him most
interesting guy because his energy is so different from all the talkers. This makes
his personality magnetic, it becomes hard for you to ignore him. if you're a
genuinely good listener you stand to learn, hear stories and make others feel
seen and acknowledged.
to say that a person feels listened to means a lot more than just their ideas get heard. It's a sign of respect. It makes people feel valued. - Deborah Tannen
Give reply in flavored manner
Magnetism typically means being a center of
influence or to be recognized as the go-to person, so whenever you hear
fruitless question in your interaction like- "how are you?",
"what's up?" or "how's it going?" don’t end up conversation
by giving dull answer like "fine" instead reply in a flavored manner:
"amazing", "everything is beautiful". The other person will
instantly get impressed by you and most of the time they will ask, what made
you answer that way. Magnetism depends not only on what you say but how you say
it. Be aware of your tone and your facial expressions when you speak. Your way
of speaking and tone is much more important than you think.
Sense of Humor
People having great sense of humor attract others just like a magnet.
People with a quick wit are typically bright and clever. Humor says a lot about
your attitude and outlook, your playful style often reveals your good heart
thus this quality makes you instantly desirable. And if you don’t know, let me
tell you that woman like man having good sense of humor. You need to be able to
laugh about yourself and situations. Humor work like healing power on many
occasions when event does not go as we wish. Here having good sense of humor
doesn't mean you crack jokes all the
time, but you should be able to see the humor in life and business. A good
sense of humor makes you highly attractive.
if I had no sense of humor, I would long ago have committed suicide. - Mahatma Gandhi.
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